Women, ladies, girls, whatever you want to be called...
DO NOT BE FOOLED BY THESE MEN!
Now before I get into my rant, I just watched an episode of Oprah today with my mom/aunt about these young girls who were married to some Christian cult leader. It got me thinking about being brainwashed and controlled by a man. I recently heard about a family member of mine being abused. I do not talk to this family member anymore, but if they were to read this they would know that I don't condone cowardice!
DISCLAIMER: My language may be a little vulgar, but I have to get it out and vent.
I will tell you right now, that I will be DAMNED if a man tells me that I have to follow his rules. Let him lay a hand on me and I will unleash the wrath of every woman who has ever been physically hurt.
Women...please tell me why you allow yourself to be pushed around and hit by a dude? What does he have that you don't? A Penis! That's it! You have heart and you carry the weight of the world on your shoulders every single day and you let a man harm you? HELL TO THE NO! Someone please explain to me why you let a man harm you? Why do you call the police and have them show up to your door and then tell them that "it was an accident"? You know darn well that it was not an accident. Have his ass arrested! The police would be at my door trying to arrest me because I cut him with a knife. Seriously? Don't test me! Ask my mom what she did to my dad when they were playing around and tickling each other (years ago) and he accidently hit her?: She woke him up at the crack of dawn and slapped him right across his face and said "don't think I was gonna let that slide just because we were playing...I don't want you to think that hitting me was okay." Granted this next example doesn't fit the mold exactly because I wasn't actually hit, but it's a good example at getting my point across: My brother was in my room one night and was drunk and was making a bunch of noise and I told him to be quiet or to get out and he did neither; I told him 2 more times and that last time I had had enough (mind you, I warned him that if he didn't do like I asked, he would get hit)he didn't listen so his lip got busted (had to put it out there, bro...let these ladies know what's up and how to defend themselves).
I want you all to see what it's like to defend yourself. You have the power to walk away from it. Don't say that you don't. My aunt walked away from her husband for the sake of her kids. Don't say "I have to stay for my kids" cause that's a lie. Your kids will benefit from you getting out of abuse.
If you know someone who is in an abusive relationship, send them to me. I will open my doors and show you how to grow a pair and fight back.
Don't let a man treat you like dirt. Make him treat you like the queen you are. The minute he disrespects you, show him the door. You don't need him. Let him know who runs things. 9 times out of 10, he's insecure and that's why he belittles you.
